I guest posted for Emma on headship and submission and all that.
Stuff like...
The Father is the Head, His Son is the Body (1 Corinthians 11:3)...
Christ is the Head, His Church is the Body (Ephesians 5:21-33)...
Ephesians 5 says that Head and Body roles are taken on by husbands and wives…so it seems clear that there is a place for roles. But what place?
If you only study Christ on earth, you might see a passive Father and an active Son. If you only study Christ exalted to God’s right hand, you might see a busy Father and a resting Son. If you only look at Christ in Gethsemane you might see a sweating Saviour and a sleeping church. If you only look at the worship of heaven, you might see worshipping servants and a seated Lord.
Freeze-frame a marriage at any one point and either spouse might look like the active partner, either spouse might look like they are ‘taking a lead’. And that’s a good and healthy thing. It’s the nature of a proper relationship which thrives on give-and-take.
The thing is – and finally I’m getting to my point – we just can’t insist on one kind of action for one member of the relationship. In fact, to worry about specifics is a big mistake. Roles is about an overall shape to the relationship in which the Head serves in love and the Body encourages and receives that serving love. And when this shape is even approximated in human marriages, something wonderful happens. Suddenly the caricature of marriage is over-turned. You know the picture – rightly derided in our culture: there’s a good-for-nothing husband, half-man, half-sofa, watching Top Gear repeats on Dave while his embittered wife taps her foot and nags him into submission.
The gospel redeems this shadow of marriage as partners embody the true roles of Head and Body. Where Adam was silent and Eve grasped, now husbands step forward and wives receive. It’s a beautiful thing when true roles are played out.
But… resolving to take on these roles is not where the revolution lies. The roles are an expression of the revolution, not the cause.
The gospel is the cause and Ephesians 5 (the passage on roles) couldn’t be clearer about it....
Read the whole thing here. And perhaps if you want to comment, do so there to keep them all together.